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In Allah’s Divine System for Human Development the relationship between man and woman is like lock and key. In each one of us is an (IRM) “internal release mechanism” which governs the giving and withholding of our “G-d given” excellences to each other.
The nature of the system is such that, in order for a Man to get the “G-d given” (Fitri/Divine) excellence from a Woman he has to be the Man that Allah created him, by nature, to be. And in order for a Woman to get the “G-d given” (Fitri/Divine) excellence from a Man she has to be the Woman that Allah created her, by nature, to be.
There is an angel in him for her and there is an angel in her for him. But neither the Angel in her nor the Angel in him is going to render service [i.e., release the “excellence of Allah’s Will in them”] to the other until either acts in accordance with the nature that Allah has created in them.