EPISODE 91 "LET YOURSELF GO, LET MYSELF OUT"

There are so many changes we can go through physically.Often times it may be self inflicted neglect. Sometimes there are outside events that cause a dramatic change in our physical appearance. We all want to be beautiful but it simply doesn't work that way. Sometimes we can't control these physical changes, but more than not we can! Let's get to the point: Do you think its fair for someone in a relationship to have a major change in physical appearance and then expect the person they are with to treat them the same? (SEXUALLY!) I'm not talking about picking up a few pounds with age, going up 2 or 3 sizes, I mean going from a size 4 to a size 20 (or for the fellas a 32 to a 52). I mean really letting yourself go to the point there was no way your significant other would have ever considered being with you in the first place had you looked like that when they met you. Let's be clear for my female listeners: carrying a child 9 months does a toll on you, but that is no excuse 3 years after the fact! I anticipate controversy on K-100 tonight. I understand how heated this topic can get, how sensitive people are about how they look. But I feel like you have a responsibility to keep up your physical and make yourself stay attractive for your mate. Its only fair if you don't want them to seek sex elsewhere that they at least WANT to have sex with you! But what about a traumatic event, say an accident that drastically changes you physically? A person can still love you , but may cheat or leave you because we all need a healthy sex life, and if they can't get turned on by you anymore they will be lacking. You think they should get a pass if they cheat? If they leave because they don't want to cheat would you say they are a bad person? If you let yourself go, and I let myself out the door, which of us is wrong?