EPISODE 108 "SISTER vs SISTER"

I have actually talked about this on my FACEBOOK page before, and the conversation got over 100 comments. Since I'm a very social person, both in the real world and the digital, I interact with a lot of people, especially women. And one thing that I hear a lot from women, and sadly especially BLACK women, is a central answer when you ask them about their friends: "I DON'T MESS WITH A LOT OF FEMALES, OR I DON'T HANG WITH CHICS LIKE THAT". Now if you are a man you can agree with me 100% that MOST of the time when you are either dating a woman, or maybe just cool with one that you have heard them say this. Now it's not that men just hang with whoever, whenever, and wherever either, BUT in general we have more people we call FRIEND or ASSOCIATE then women. Plus we keep our friends and associates longer. It's just true. BLACK WOMEN HAVE AN ISSUE WITH OTHER WOMEN, A DISTRUST THAT IS WOVEN INTO THEIR PSYCHE THAT I JUST DON'T GET. Now when you ask one of them WHY they don't hang with women or have more female friends, they all say the same thing again: "Women are too messy". REALLY? So then is there any wonder why if YOU as women can't even stand to be around each other, US as men have a hard time COMMITTING to be around one of you FOREVER. Just an observation ladies...think it over! So here are the questions: WHY DO SO MANY WOMEN FEEL LIKE THEY DON'T WANT OR NEED FEMALE FRIENDS? Do you think black women have an issue with each other and if so what do you think it is (not what they TELL you it is) For the ladies: what experience made you feel this way if this is how you feel about female friends? Have you been hurt or betrayed by a friend and is that why? If you prefer to hang around MEN more than WOMEN (not your man) why so? Do you think women are in competition with each other more than men are, and if so why? Is this an EVERY woman issue, or do you feel it's a BLACK woman issue, if so why?