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So I had a vacation..a week off from the show to chill with the fam and just relax. In doing so I partied some, and in doing that I came to a realization: when it comes to the club or any party scene people have short memories! That means that for some reason, maybe it's the alcohol, maybe its the atmosphere teeming with sexual enuendo, but people seem to often forget their relationship status in these establishments and venues. Look Im all for going out and having a good time with the girls/fellas even if you are "commited" to someone. But to me there is a certain level of respect, boundaries and rules that need to be applied and taken into account when you out on the town if thats your status. Of course I know taking this advic e from ME of all people is a tad bit hypocritical, but hey even when I do wrong I KNOW it's wrong and I dont make excuses like its right. I just dont give a damn, there is a difference. SOME people actually dont see anything wrong with letting someone of the opposite sex dance all up on them, buy them drinks all night, and flirting with them, because "they know who they are going home to". See the PROBLEM with this theory is NO ONE ELSE THAT IS THERE KNOWS THAT! So just becaue YOU know, if we are to respect the person we are with to the upmost, why would you do something in a club that you would not do if the other person was right there with you? There is a difference in partying when your single and when you are in a relationship. You cant do the same shit. So here goes the question: 1) Should your behavior in public change when your relationship status changes? 2) If you are in the club or at a party is it okay to dance with, drink with and flirt with the opposite sex? 3) If a person appears to be acting single in the club but they are not would you say they are the cheating type? 4) What are some things you should NOT do at a party?club if you are in a relationship?