Child support who really benefits

Too often we hear about men not paying consistently and sometimes not at all. We also hear about women using it to help themselves and not take care of the child. Meanwhile the child is being tugged both directions and being impacted by it all. Let's break down how it can be a positive thing if used correctly. We will also look at scenarios when it hasn't.. men if you not paying cuz you mad she won't be with you or women using the support as a way to hurt the man.. we on y'all feelings today.