insecurity issues, low self worth and early sexuality

we will be talking about insecurity issues,self esteem and low self worth, why do so many people particularly people of color hate what they see in the mirror? where does this stem from? also what can we do to make sure the next generation knows their self worth. the 2nd half of the show we will be discussing the 9yrs old girl who gave the another child in her classroom "head" where are kids learning this behavior from? and why are people not taking it as seriously because it happened to a young boy? why do we not value our young boys sexuality like we do young girls?